The Myth of “Work/Life Balance

We talk about it – strive for it but – what is work/life balance? According to Wikipedia, it is: a concept including the proper prioritization between work (career and ambition) and lifestyle (health, pleasure, leisure, family.) When we looked up the...

The Way We Look at the Problem is Almost Always Part of the Problem

In my work with individuals and teams, we often begin with the question “What problem are we trying to solve?” This simple question can generate a strong reaction. Based on the position in the hierarchy, experience, preferences aspirations and the like, different...

Why are we having such a hard time hearing each other?

There is an old Vermont joke in which two farmers are listening to a politician’s campaign speech. One of the farmers turns to the other and asks, “What is he talking about?” “He don’t say!” his friend responds. While this always generated a chuckle,...

The Seduction of Becoming “a Leader”

One of the most powerful seductions happens all around us – and yet goes unnoticed for what it is – a way to get us to do things that we are not likely to do on our own. In fact, you may have been under its influence and not noticed! If you have looked...