The Three Ways People Get Ahead in Organizations

When asking people to reflect on how they achieved their current status, the following process helps surface what shaping or encouragement they have received: “Please raise your hand when I describe the reason that has lead to your rise in this organization. There are...

Don’t Worry that your Children Don’t Listen to You…..

Robert Fulghum, author of the famous life advice book “All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten” once wrote: “Don’t worry that your children don’t listen to you, worry that they watch you.” This profound advice applies to organizations as well as families....

The Myth of “Work/Life Balance

We talk about it – strive for it but – what is work/life balance? According to Wikipedia, it is: a concept including the proper prioritization between work (career and ambition) and lifestyle (health, pleasure, leisure, family.) When we looked up the...

The Way We Look at the Problem is Almost Always Part of the Problem

In my work with individuals and teams, we often begin with the question “What problem are we trying to solve?” This simple question can generate a strong reaction. Based on the position in the hierarchy, experience, preferences aspirations and the like, different...

Why are we having such a hard time hearing each other?

There is an old Vermont joke in which two farmers are listening to a politician’s campaign speech. One of the farmers turns to the other and asks, “What is he talking about?” “He don’t say!” his friend responds. While this always generated a chuckle,...